Resources for parents don't need to be expensive, time-consuming or professionally organized. Organic support from friends and family lightens the load of parenting.
Nobody parents in a vaccuum, no matter how much it may feel like it on those endless late-winter days. Our social networks of friends, family, daycare providers and neighbours provide a great deal of support and guidance when it comes to raising children. Making an effort to strengthen our relationships between friends and family members increases bonds between your child and other adults, and also makes the job of parenting easier.
In these modern days, many families live thousands of miles away from each other, only gathering together for major holidays like Christmas and making do with phone calls or webcam sessions in the meantime. Recently, my little one and I made the journey to Grandma and Grandpa's house for an extended visit. Not only do I get the benefit of two extra pairs of hands to help keep her entertained, read stories and play dolls, but this time spent getting to know each other in a relaxed, non-holiday atmosphere is invaluable.
I'd love to be able to have regular family gatherings on Sundays, like some grandparents do. I met a grandfather while traveling who had 11 grandchildren and 3 great-grandchildren, and himself and his wife host 26 people for family dinner on Sunday each week. Those are some strong family bonds, and a great source of playing together, learning from each other and free babysitting to be had! For the rest of us who might live a long way from our families, have lost one or both parents, or have become estranged from their families, we've got to make do with the bonds and support we've got.
Take a moment this week and look for all the people in your life who offer you support and make your parenting possible. As they say, it takes a village to raise a child.
